Romy Holland is a Berkeley mom whose meet-cute happened at a raucous sex party. That night she had sex with dozens of men, one of which would become her husband. In this episode, Romy talks about the party in question, from the sexy aspects to the much more awkward ones. Plus she talks about what new motherhood does to desire, and the unexpected emotional toll of an abortion that didn't go as planned.
Read Romy’s essay “What Nobody Told Me About Abortion“
And we first heard about Romy in the San Francisco Standard’s story “When A Gang Bang Becomes a Love Story“
Podcast production by Zoe Azulay
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